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COMMENTARY | As if New York residents weren't facing enough trouble with the massive storm damage from Hurricane Sandy. According to National Geographic Daily News, the city is now besieged by droves of rats looking for food and possibly hoping to re-establish themselves on drier ground. The news is enough to make most of the rest of us cringe but it should come as no surprise. Rats have adapted to live around humans over thousands of years. They do well by how we live and conditions created by the storm have emboldened these amazingly survivable creatures.
It appears the rats were flooded out by the torrential rain from the super-storm which hit the East Coast over the last few days. Under normal conditions, rats can actually burrow deeper in the soil than water can seep. But, in addition to the flooding of their usual habitat, the tempting lure of trash strewn all about the city, which the rats consider a food source, has lured the hungry creatures out into broad daylight. New Yorkers can expect to see rats by the thousands until they're able to return to their usual habitat. City workers and residents certainly have their hands full in re-building their lives.
During the rainfall, rats reportedly escaped the subways in the same manner as humans would exit - the stairs. Many sought shelter behind garbage bins and under parked cars until the storm let up. Now, a veritable smorgasbord has come to their feet. A major concern for New Yorkers now is the obvious risk of disease with thousands of rats roaming the streets.
While the residents of the East Coast - especially New York City and New Jersey - those of us in the rest of the US need not sit by idly, feeling helpless. The Lookout offers a list of charities through which donors can help with donations towards hurricane relief.
We can give more than just money too. Churches, groups and clubs can also contribute donations of food, clothing, blankets and other basic necessities. Additional items readers might consider donating are batteries, toilet paper, feminine hygiene products, diapers, baby wipes, hand sanitizer and even toys. Pretty much anything which those of us fortunate enough to not live in the Northeast take for granted every day could help the people of the New York City and New Jersey.
Any
animal lover will occasionally encounter stray kittens and sometimes
– either to get them spayed/neutered or just to adopt them as pets
– it might become necessary to gain their trust and win them over.
While it can be complicated, even difficult, it is do-able. The
greatest tool we humans have is food. In the animal world, food is
love. It should be noted, only try this with weaned kittens. Never
approach nursing kittens of a feral cat.
The biggest obstacle
is, of course, momma cat. Domesticated cats are protective of their
young as it is - to the point they will even attack people they're
accustomed to over their young. A feral cat will try to kill you if
you get too close to their offspring. This is no laughing matter
since a stray cat in defense mode truly is a deadly force. In order
to even have a chance to approach wild kittens, you must first win
over the mother cat. It will take weeks of regular feeding and
gentleness to win over a stray cat. If you're lucky enough to have a
cat see you protect it from a barking dog or a scary toddler, this
will earn you fast points. Cats remember these small things.
If
you're not successful in winning over the momma cat, you might want
to consider asking for help in trapping them from the local humane
society, which will probably also include having the cat spayed and
then released. Be prepared to pay a fee for their services, still,
they're reasonable.
If you've any sort of rapport with momma
cat, half of the battle is already won. Now it becomes a matter of
getting the mother to allow her kittens to eat, at least for short
intervals. In our case where I live, we have a particularly
gluttonous momma cat who seems to think she needed every single crumb
of food before the kittens – now fully weaned – had even a chance
at getting a bite. The solution is easy enough.
Since momma
cat cannot be in two places at once, we would leave multiple piles of
cat food so that the mother could eat to her piggish little heart's
content and the kittens would have at least some access to some of
the food too. They saw that we were the providers of their kibble.
And out-smarting momma cat also allowed the little ones to become
accustomed to our scent. Sometimes, it took three or four small piles
of cat food for the kittens to get so much as a bite. But soon, she
realized that she was getting enough herself, even though the young
ones were also eating too. This effort might take a few days to
accomplish.
But some cats are just pigs. No matter what
approach you take, they will not let their young eat. In those cases,
you'll need to physically separate the momma cat from the kittens
before they have any opportunity to get even a single bite.
Sometimes, you might consider letting momma cat into your house and
closing the door. It's probably better though, if you have a garage
she can be closed into for a few minutes while the kittens eat. After
they've eaten their fill and after you've taken small steps to let
them become accustomed to your scent and presence, let the momma cat
back out so she knows her babies are safe. As obnoxious as a cat can
be, she still deserves as much, at least. They are her young, after
all.
In addition to feeding them, you'll also need to let the
kittens see that you're no threat to them. If you sit outside while
they eat, make no sudden moves toward them. It probably won't hurt if
you were to soothe their over-inflated cat egos with soothing talk
from a distance. Once they've discovered you're not going to eat them
and that you'll probably protect them should they need you, you can
begin feeding them gradually closer to your door each day. It's just
a matter of time before their curiosity has them eating out of your
hands, literally.
To see pictures of our stray momma cat the big pig, visit here.
Years back, I was told a story explaining
why most people can't handle being the boss or working for
themselves. In fact, when most people assume the boss has an easier
job, they don't really know what they're saying and are just whining.
I hope you enjoy it:
There was once a potato farmer who had a
small crew of workers on his farm. Most of them did a decent job and
earned their pay, farming being so much work and all. One day, the
farmer took on a new hand who said he desperately needed work.
For
the first month, the new hand was amazing. He did the work of any two
hands. Although the other hands resented him somewhat, the old farmer
just loved him. He secretly wished he had ten men just like him. But
the resentment from the other hands grew to being a problem.
Well,
the farmer didn't want to let such a good worker go. He decided to
simply put this excellent worker into a new, easier job, to reward
his good work ethic.
The farmer told the hand, “I have a
new job for you. It's much easier.” The hand was happy to hear it
as the farmer continued, “All I need you to do is work here in the
barn sorting potatoes as they come in. You decide whether they're
small, medium or large and separate them into the appropriate bin.”
The worker seemed happy for the new opportunity and set right
away to work. The farmer was pleased to do right by such a good
worker.
But within the first couple of hours, the hand
stormed out of the barn yelling, “I QUIT! DECISIONS! DECISIONS!
DECISIONS!”
And that's why most people can't stand being
the boss. Decisions.
Millions of people every day turn to the Interwebz
thingies looking for an additional source of income. The action
usually follows along this line: Jane needs an extra $300 a month to
“make ends meet,” to make sure she runs out of month before she
runs out of money. So, in addition to her regular job, she does an
online search for income opportunities.
She finds literally
hundreds and hundreds of offers with a simple search of terms like
“make extra money” or “work from home.” They promise her the
moon and the stars, all with just an investment of $49. After looking
at a few, and knowing she truly needs a financial break, she commits
herself to doing without a few simpler pleasures one month in order
to invest her funds and takes the plunge.
Often, the purchase
she made is into some sort of network marketing or
multi-level-marketing type of opportunity, where the “plan” seems
to be to sell some over-priced product of average quality, at a
ridiculously low profit margin and to find hundreds of others to do
the same. Maybe she even goes so far as to even commit to some
impossible-to-cancel monthly auto-ship program in order to keep
herself at an optimal percentage bracket.
At this point, the
reality sets in for Jane. She hits up her friends and family to get
some orders (and out of love for her, a few do place an order).
Perhaps she even has the guts to talk to a few strangers. If she's
rare, she might even go so far as to have some business cards printed
up and hands them out to a few dozen strangers, in an effort to drum
up some business.
What often happens for so many of these
Janes is, at the very best, perhaps they make a $100 check for their
investment of $350 altogether (counting all expenses like their own
purchases of products, business cards, gas going to and fro,
“business lunches,” etc.,). It seems like all she needs to do is
keep trying. Most don't even end up doing this good.
But,
after a few months, she finally realizes the plan she was offered on
the company's website isn't what she's experiencing. She starts
noticing the very same product she's trying to market for $50 is
available at the local Wal-Mart for $20. Sometimes it's at the local
dollar store.If she's fortunate to have good, caring friends, they
point it out to her, hoping she'll drop the company like a hot potato
and quit wasting her time. The smarter Janes of the world, do. Jane
is crushed. Jane realizes her product is over-priced and she can't
compete.
Jane also realizes the profit margin on her product
is ridiculously low. Wal-Mart usually runs a minimum of 30 percent
profit margin. So, if they're making 30 percent minimum on a $20
item, why is she only earning 5 to 25 percent of a $50 item? Then it
hits her: The company she's working with is full of crap. They
designed their marketing plan, not as a way for her to profit, but
for them. While they assured her in conference call after conference
call of their “commitment to her success,” all they're really
interested in is their success.
She also then comes to learn
how many thousands of others just like her have been promised those
same moon and stars as she was. It's then that Jane sees that the
real plan for the company is to get as many suckers to order their
product - at a huge mark-up - as possible. Jane is crushed
emotionally. And she's not the first.
All that passion, all
that energy, all that work, all that money invested and here she is
now, worse off than before. It seems the “Great American Dream”
is dead. But it's not. Jane just fell victim to a bullshit line.
She's no different than the rest of us who've been burned. She's not
a “failure” at all. She just learned a valuable lesson. If Jane's
a fighter, she'll come to realize a wonderful secret to making the
kind of money she needs and having the kind of life she wants.
It's
three little words and it's my hope that some Jane out there has kept
reading this far. Here's the secret, free of charge to you, my dear
readers, after having spent so much of myself to learn it for my own
life: Find your passion!
All that work, energy, blood,
sweat and tears selling someone else's dream enriches them. If you're
going to put so much hard work, late hours and money into anyone's
dream, let it be your own. This way, you're in control of prices,
special deals, the rules and how you go about building the business,
whatever type of business it is.
I once worked with a company
(I won't say their name but their initials are A-M-W-A-Y) who had a
crappy little rule that said you weren't allowed to market your
product off of store shelves. So, there went any chance to build up
volume bonuses intelligently. You also weren't allowed to order
products in large quantity containers, such as 55-gallon drums, so
there went another opportunity for me to market one particular
product of theirs to friends who worked in the various oilfield
industries.
Other companies I've tried working with had
similar rules in place which kept their profit margins ridiculously
high, while stifling every creative approach I tried for, myself. It
was almost as if they didn't want me to find any real success! I've
since learned this wasn't just my perception. If they limit any one
individual's success, they keep more chumps on the line.
Working
for yourself, on your own, personal, passionate plan also keeps
anyone else from screwing you over on commissions. The closer you are
to the hard, nitty-gritty details of your business operations, the
more control you enjoy overall, and the less chance there is another
person can find some bogus reason to not pay you what you've
earned.
It doesn't matter what your passion is. Figure out how to turn what you have an interest in and go for making it profitable. As you grow your business, you'll learn all the finer details. Just start living your own life now - and not that of someone else. Otherwise, you may very well just be better off sticking with a regular 9-to-5. The world needs factory workers too. So there's no shame in it.
If you want to succeed on a long-term, real-world
basis, find your own passion! Sell YOUR DREAM, not someone else's.
Find what YOU love doing and do it. It's really that simple. It might
actually be more work, harder stress (in some situations) and even
longer hours. But, being your own baby, it's more of an act of love
than a struggle. Why put all of that effort into continuously
enriching someone “over you?” It's not foolish to benefit those
who deal with you (In fact, I highly recommend you always strive for
the mutual-win scenario in all arrangements) But to spend your days
achieving someone else's dream, is. Find your passion. Sell your own
dream.
I'm preparing to grow at
least one nice jalapeno pepper plant. While folks in other parts of
the country with colder climates might have to wait for Spring, this
is Cajun country. Nearly everything can grow year 'round down here.
Heck, last Christmas I was in a t-shirt, shorts and barefoot all day
long.
To get the seeds, I'm drying three selected peppers (pictured here) to get the seeds. Some folks just save a few seeds
from their preparing jalapenos. But I want my seeds to get all the
nutrition they can from the fruit within which they developed. The
more mature the seeds, the better chance at a successful germination,
anyway.
Each pepper makes as many as hundreds of seeds
apiece, so I'm certain I'll have enough to work with for myself, and
plenty to share with friends too. I'm even considering starting a few
seedlings as gifts. Jiffy pots and soil are fairly cheap and I'm
going to have WAY more than I need. It seems a shame to waste them
all. If nobody accepts them, I'll drop them in a nearby creek and who
knows, perhaps a few will sprout wild somewhere downstream. But I'm
pretty sure someone around here will want them. They might even sell
for a buck a seedling down at the local farmer's market.
Anyway,
after the peppers dry, I'll pull the seeds out then, rather than
taking the seeds out while the jalapenos are still fresh. Dry seeds
are so much easier to work with, as opposed to drying the seeds
themselves. Just as soon as the peppers dry, I'll be back with an
update on the steps for a good planting. Thanks for dropping in!
Kratom (Mitragyna
speciosa)
is
a leaf harvested from a large tree native to Southeast Asia. It is in
the same family as the coffee tree. Although using kratom has been
common throughout its native range of Southeast Asia, this amazing
plant has remained virtually unknown outside of that area until the
last few years. In Southeast Asia, natives chew the leaves fresh
after removing the stems and veins. But users in other parts of the
world are discovering the benefits of the dried or powdered leaves as
well. Harvesters and farmers of this wonderful plant work under
special guidelines and licenses of their respective governments.
Kratom offers a distinctly pleasant relaxation experience without any
of the usual intoxicating effects of other plant substances such as
marijuana, which also carries the unfortunate risk of being illegal
at this time. Some people also use kratom for its amazing pain
management attributes.
Small doses of kratom are known to
have a simultaneously stimulating effect as well as relieving anxiety
and depression. Larger doses of kratom can have a sedating effect.
Some users say that not only does a larger dose of kratom help them
go to sleep, it's also said to give the user pleasant dreams –
sometimes achieving the lucid dream state. While smaller doses of kratom make physical
labor easier, even after a long day already filled with hard work.
Taken later in the day can keep the user awake.
When using kratom, as with any
substance the user is unfamiliar with, it's not wise to operate a
motor vehicle or operate machinery, at least until the user becomes
familiar with the dosage amounts for the desired effect.
Kratom is
being investigated by researchers for its supportive role in treating
opiate addicts and alcoholics finding it difficult to be clean and
sober. The most desirable quality of this wonderful substance is how
it seems to relieve the addict of withdrawal symptoms without
creating a new dependency itself. Long-term users might experience a
craving similar to the yearning a coffee-drinker might experience,
were they to miss their morning cup. This yearning might last only a
day or two, even for heavier users – and is far more preferable to
the withdrawal symptoms of an opiate or alcohol addiction.
How
do you take kratom?
Most people simply take it in two capsules of 500 milligrams each,
per dose. If it's in a crushed leaf or powdered form, some might
prefer to make a tea by bringing a mug of water to a very low boil
and steeping the powder or crushed leaves for 20 to 25 minutes and
then straining the tea out through a coffee filter, along with some
honey for flavor. The taste of this tea is very “grassy” and some
might find it unpleasant. Others do not and rather enjoy it.
Those
who neither have capsules nor like the flavor of tea find it's easily
ingested by being stirred into applesauce or a serving of tomato
juice or V8. Beginners might want to stick with one or two grams at a
time until they're familiar with the blissful effects. Kratom, again, will NOT get users “high.” So, if this is your intent, be aware,
you're simply throwing your money away. At most, its effects are
similar to a strong chamomile tea.
More detailed information
on kratom, along with pricing and shipping information (Perhaps the best prices and service
to be found, in fact) is available through this link. If you
like, feel free to browse around the site and see what is available
there. The admin of the site is responsive to questions from interested parties.
The preceding statements have not been evaluated by the FDA, nor has the FDA authorized kratom for use to treat any illness or condition. All statements made are based on the experiences of the author as well as other contributors. Anyone considering using kratom is advised to check with their healthcare provider first. Readers bear responsibility for knowing whether kratom is legal where they live, or not. This posting is sponsored.
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Need
a little fun and pizazz in your online life? Are you ever going to
love this game! It's called “UprisingEmpires” and not only is it free to play, the brilliant minds
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reason: It's a whole lotta fun!
The theme behind the game is
you're leading a small, ancient Roman village. You ensure your
village has the resources needed to survive,of course. But the REAL
FUN begins when you go up against other villages in raids to win
resources, treasure and prisoners in combat. All in good fun.
Players from all English-speaking countries are welcome to
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Registration is quick, easy and you can
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I'm touching on a
topic I don't want to. I'm talking to the thousands of remaining
“conspiracy theorists” who think they believe the attacks of 9-11
to be an “inside job.” Yes, dear future grandchildren, there were
those who thought we did the 9-11 attacks to ourselves, in order to
give the current U.S. government more power on a federal level.
(Well, in some ways, it did, just not for the reasons so many
thought. So many people chased down the wrong rabbit hole.)
Anyways.
The biggest claim yet remaining among most 9-11 conspiracy adherents
has been and up until now, remained the hardest question to satisfy.
The claim has been that burning debris from both buildings 1 and 2
set it on fire. After burning for hours the main support column
finally gave way and the building came down.
Most followers
of these nearly-popular “theories” Is a view from approximately
North by Northwest of the Northwest corner of the building, and upon
it, stake most claims. How many have ever seen the South side of the
building? Have you seen images of the burning smoke on the South
side? Can you imagine the heat, the intensity and the destruction
from a mostly synthetics and petroleum products fire burning so
long?
Does this Southern view look "unscathed" to you? Didn't think so. Now, please shut up.
Steel doesn't need to be melted to
lose its temper. Those carbon atoms can be lost with only sufficient
heat. And it certainly doesn't need to be the entirety of the steel
either. The World Trade Center buildings were not built as if they
were old-style buildings. Engineers were trying something new. It
wouldn't be too much of a stretch to guess the engineers just never
considered such a scenario.
Anyhoo. For those not satisfied
with the public domain image from Wikipedia (Here's the link foryourself) then please, watch the video below to see the reason
building 7 fell. Finally, some evidence to relieve the concerns of
the more reasonable, rational folks who follow the 9-11 conspiracy
theory crowd. The only hangers-on at this point will be those
unwilling or unable to accept hard facts, or those with a book,
t-shirt or video to sell you.
If the video isn't loading, or in case anyone wants to see the link on the Daily Mail from which I obtained the video, please visit here. (Hit the "x" in the upper-right-hand corner after 5 seconds to see the article.)
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My fellow Americans, I'm in the process of helping one million of my fellow countrymen (+women of course) to find much needed jobs. We've all seen how miserably government fails at the task, so it's time we – who truly desire for a vibrant, strong economy – to make sure the task is achieved.
We can't guarantee anyone will find the “perfect” job. We might even lead a few folks to some pretty awful, objectionable jobs. But, by golly, I'm doing all I can to at least helping one million families to have some sort of income.
Help your fellow countrymen out by telling job-seekers about EasyJobFinder.INFO (Not “com,” please) and that we're helping folks in all sorts of job searches, absolutely for free. (Employers welcomed and fawned after, by all employment services we offer.)
Please, feel free to discuss all you like or don't like. Thank you for this lovely opportunity.
1. Jobs are always going to be something people want and need.
2. Jobs (employment) appeals on the logical and emotional level.
3. It's all about getting the money in.
4. Telling a friend about EasyJobFinder.INFO is an easy way to actually help them.
5. Helping folks find jobs feeds entire communities.
6. We help feed children, by doing this, our jobs of sharing EasyJobFinder.INFO.
7. Helping a friend find work is nicer than just saying “I'll pray for you.”
8. We help clothe children, by sharing EasyJobFinder.INFO.
9. We're easily shared!
10. We're free to use for all Americans!
11. American businesses make money from “extra hands” on-the-job.
12. We're working on a few links to help friends in other countries, starting with Canada, soon!
13. We offer mobile options for those job-seekers not in front of a monitor.
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Scientists, on their best days, can have a reader referencing forth and back between a statement and a dictionary. But once they begin to get into quantum mechanics multi-verse theory I usually get lost.
On qm, I've so much to begin learning. Multi-verse makes a little more sense now. Who's to say our entire cosmos is not just a quantum-level crumb in someone else's sub-atomic structure pie? I happen to posit that each quantum part in our bodies are entire universes unto themselves as well. I doubt we have much to worry about trimming our nails though, being a part of the infinity of universes we all are.
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Most folks today are followers. We're given a kind of set of 'instructions' from birth to death and we seldom, if ever, deviate from them.
Being taught, for example, to never question or 'disrespect' authority leads many of us into a life of obedience and un-necessary self-sacrifice to folks who do not even deserve such a position of power over us or anyone else.
I was once like you. I was taught through all of my youth that some people are just 'born to' do certain things. Sadly some of these 'things' included being happy, free, prosperous, and self-determining of one's future. Others, like myself I was told, had to just accept what life handed them.
Well, fortunately for me I'd ran into some problems just a few short years back that made me decide to choose whether I'd just accept what life had for me or to choose my own destiny. Without going into too much detail I faced either going to prison for a crime I never committed or to stand and fight the injustice, abuse of power, and blatant dishonesty all too common within the ranks of those who lust for power.
I chose the latter.
It was a struggle to be sure. After so many years of blind trust in religion, the police, family, and well-meaning 'friends' it was difficult to rely solely upon my own mind, reasoning ability, thought capacity, and courage. In addition, many of these 'friends' fell by the way-side when I began to question, and even disagree with, their well-intended, but all too ignorant, advice. When all was said and done all that were left were those all too precious and rare true friends.
At the end of the day though isn't that all any of us ever really want...our true friends?
But I digress...
In the midst of this particular struggle, I'd come across a book about something called NLP or Neuro-Linguistic-Programming (Neuro=Nervous system, Linguistic=Language or talk, Programming=a set of commands or instructions for pre-determined responses or actions for any computer-including the human brain).
Now I'm not going to try to claim any sort of expert status here. I'm not even going to engage you in any sort of elaborate training.
I'm only here today to offer you one simple exercise that will demonstrate the effectiveness of how your brain, and what you tell yourself, can directly and measurably affect results obtained in your body and your life. From there, I'd suggest that you do a Google search for the term NLP, or maybe even, Anthony Robbins himself.
This maneuver will show you just the tiniest example of how you can take yourself beyond what you now believe to be your own limits.
Here it is:
It's much easier to do and more 'fluid' if you read these instructions all the way through first and then do the exercise.
Standing with your feet together and your legs straight, bend over and come as close to touching your toes as possible. If you're able to touch your toes, fine, go as far as you can comfortably and without 'bouncing' or hurting yourself.
Make a note of how far you went. Did you reach all the way to your toes? Or, did you go all the way to the floor? Or are you like my incredibly agile children and put your palms flat on the floor (most folks never get that far the first time-believe me)? Regardless of how far you reached comfortably just make a mental note.
Standing back up, close your eyes, picture in your mind how far you got. Then see yourself standing back up.
Without opening your eyes see yourself going a little farther in another imaginary attempt. I don't mean just an inch or two. If you reached, in reality the last time, to your toes then see yourself going out to the floor...maybe even resting your fist on the floor. See yourself going this far two or three times. With each mental repetition tell yourself, in a casual and relaxed fashion, 'I can do this.' Remember; you're only doing this part of the exercise in your mind.
Now, with your eyes open, actually do another stretch in reality. Again be careful not to bounce or strain; just don't limit yourself to your last result. Go for the distance that you visualized.
At this point; I bet dimes to doughnuts (because I do like my doughnuts) that you very well might have gone as far as you visualized.
Pretty amazing isn't it?
Basically what just happened is you've re-programmed your mind to let you relax enough to achieve a different result than you were used to. If you're from this planet, you're muscles are at a certain level of tension at all times, you're used to a certain level of physical activity, and you have a 'status-quo' as far as what you normally picture yourself doing, all due to what you've been taught, told or believe about yourself; and now you've given yourself a new set of instructions.
As you now go and study NLP for yourself, you'll learn a wide variety of ways to apply this basic approach to all areas of your life whether it's physically, romantically, financially, or vocationally.
After you've made significant progress in your life; feel free to stop back and say hi.
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COMMENTARY | When I first heard my daughter on Facebook asking my ex's new hubby how old he was, because that's what it takes for him to feel big, to go (censored) herself, I admit to all sorts of emotional responses - we'll not discuss here – and all sorts of suggestions for comment came up...I wanted to rant.
Knowing, however, this was my daughter's page and might someday, in some way, affect her chances at employment, kept my typing tongue in check. A wiser man than I recently told me: “It's sometimes not what you say, but what you don't say, that means so much.” Since that simple glimpse of just a few words so altering of my behavior, I've noticed there's something to be said for staying silent on Fb – as well as any other site too. There's power in shutting the f*ck up, at least every now and then.
Any discussion, along with every word, will be marketed to any sort of company or sponsor at all. Not all of those sponsors will be companies wanting to sell you a product or service. Some of them could be anything or anyone from researchers to government agencies wanting information about you and/or any group of individuals. We Americans are volunteering up our information to everybody.
Even more importantly, though, soon there will be a resource for anyone, anywhere to know anything and everything about you at any time in your life. Even if you “set your privacy settings” in the most paranoid style, you're still wide open and fair game to data marketers. Do I really want to throw such data about my daughter's life, out there to data marketers?
I asked concerned family to delete their comments. My daughter also wisely deleted her comment – but not until I caught a screen capture.
I also won't deny what I think of this guy, my ex's new boi. I don't like how I hear he talks to my kids. I've accepted that it's not my say who she chooses. She has the right of prerogative, after all. There's nothing I can say in relation to that and wouldn't use the prerogative if I had it. Who on earth would want to control another's intimate life anyway? But I don't like what I hear he says.
It just seems to me, mom might just be the biggest risk the new guy faces, should he make any sort of errors in judgment in his treatment of his step-daughter. She and I might not have made the best of couple, but there's no doubt she's a mother bear over those kids. And she's not alone.
This poor guy has no idea of the level at which he's out-numbered. Let him mis-judge his place or behavior with our four children and let's see how long he might enjoy his little indoor vacation. He'll never be able to say I've threatened him with violence. I just want him to know justice itself would exact its price for any bad choice he may make. If it's the only thing I might ever do as their dad, I'd see he pays the utmost possible.
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COMMENTARY | Of all the world's religions, Islam has proven time and again to be one of the greatest threats to modern thought, freedom and life. Compared to the dangers of Islam, Christianity is relatively benign - and I say that as an atheist, myself.
Reuters reports of Hamad al-Naqi, a Kuwaiti who was convicted of "insulting the prophet Mohammed" and given a 10-year sentence for this victimless crime. Al-Naqi is losing a decade of his freedom for insulting a dead man. Also, there were some in the courtroom who wanted him executed for this so-called crime of "insulting" a mere man some 1400-plus years dead. Somehow, I'm of the impression no dead man feels the sting of any insult and even if he did, is it worth taking a man's life over?
Islam is a danger to society and humanity for other reasons too. Consider the point in Sharia law that calls for the death of anyone choosing to leave Islam. It matters not if said apostate is a convert or born into this brand of faith. Allah is considered so great that, should you choose to not follow him, your life is moot, your value as a human being null.
Some Muslims will argue this law is not stated in the Quran but rather in the Hadith and Sira. The fact remains many Muslims are comfortable with the idea of executing apostates and infidels. This is not acceptable within modern civilization. Any group that uses death threats to retain membership has no place in modern life and is a direct threat to individual freedom.
We must remember the violence in response to a Danish cartoonist's publication of images of Mohammed in 2005. Altogether, the protests resulted in 100 deaths and the controversy lasted until as recently as 2012. Any religion with such vehement hatred for free expression must be kept in check.
Add to these points the recent, numerous "honor killings" in the West - and elsewhere - oppression of women in general and a disdain for any open discussion questioning Islam and we have a religious cult scarier than anything Christianity could dream up.
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